HI Steve,
I just googled "30A 5V Relay", I found this module on Amazon (UK) for £11.29.
It has an opto-isolator built in so that it can be driven directly from a micro-controller like the Netduino.
The relay contacts are rated at 30Amps 30VDC.
I have not used this part myself, but it looks like it would to the job.
The module above has screw terminals, depending on your application, you might be better off with blade connectors. Many of the relays I saw in my search had these.
Automotive relays might also be a good choice for you since there are lots of high current loads in a vehicle, but you will almost certainly need 12V to drive the coil.
There are always lots of things to consider!
Hope this helps - Paul