Hello Carlito and welcome in the forum.
I think the problem is a hardware problem. The Arduino board works using 5V, just like the LCD module. So, the signal levels are perfectly compatible across.
Netduino offers a signal span up to 3.3V, thus may not be enough to drive the LCD module.
I strongly suggest to follow the article of Szymon about this kind of modules. He's using a 74HC595 shift register to interface the Netduino with the module, and that's working perfectly.
The trick is around the technology of the "HC" chips, which is different from the (old) CMOS of the LCD module. The HC-series chips allow the connection of slightly different voltage logic.
Cheers
Hi Mario, thanks a lot for your help, I read the article and I'll get the 74HC595 chip to try with the example shown there. It's very nice to have the help of all of you
See you!