A few quick notes:
There are at least three Gadgeteer Ethernet modules out there. Each of them will work with at least one board, but none of them will work with all Gadgeteer mainboards. We tested two of them with Netduino Go during board development, with early (and modified) firmware.
For Ethernet, I'd recommend waiting a few weeks. The SD and Ethernet modules for Netduino Go were delayed a bit because we're using a brand new (and awesome) Cortex-M0 chip on them. Those chips arrived two weeks ago, and now we're finishing validation on the SD card module (using the updated chip datasheet) this week. Next week we'll do the same for the Ethernet modules. Samples should show up soon, then thousands of production modules. They're going to be really nice.
Regarding those other boards and options...in the Gadgeteer world almost all firmware is alpha or beta (even mainboards that have been shipping for 6 months). And several of the newer Gadgeteer mainboards no longer follow the spirit of "match letters and it probably works" philosophy that the first boards did. So it's all a bit of "at your own risk"
We'll enable SPI soon on the Shield Base, at which point you could use a Wiznet solution--although Ethernet will be right behind that and will be much, much faster...and will use NETMF's built-in System.Net classes.
Now the big question...what will you build with Ethernet? That's the fun part
Chris